First They Killed My Father

In 1975, Loung Ung lived in privilege with her parents and six siblings in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. At the age of five, she already knew she was more fortunate than many of the other children she encountered on the busy streets of her city. Her father was a government official, so the family was well off and never had to worry about where they would get their next meal, or whether the children would be able to attend school.

Then in April 1975, Pol Pot’s Khmer Rouge army invaded the city and forced everyone to flee; those who were unable to leave were killed. The Ung family was was forced to join hundreds of thousands of people traveling for days on foot, leaving behind everything they owned and not knowing if they would ever be allowed back. Since the Khmer Rouge were indiscriminately killing anyone associated with the former government, the entire family had to be careful of what they said at all times and move constantly to avoid attracting attention.

Though Loung was only five at the time, the horrors she describes are vivid and painful. Her youngest sibling was three at the time and the oldest was fourteen; with seven children, their parents struggled to keep the family safe and nourished. The family moved around to various camps; about two million Cambodians died from disease, starvation, or executions at the hands of the Khmer Rouge soldiers patrolling the area. To better protect the family, the parents decided it was best to separate and send all but the youngest child to work camps; this way, if their true identities were discovered, the entire family wouldn’t be murdered together.

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